BDSM toys provide you with the things, which you had no chance or possibility to experience. Basically there are two main characters: the submissive and the dominant, but actually scenarios are much varied. You may try yourself as a slave and a master, an offender and a police-officer, a doctor and his patient. All this in fact depends on your fantasy.

Someone said that nudity is not what really turns us on. What really excites us lies in our brain. The idea that you will be tied up or will control somebody's feelings may become an irresistible desire. Many people just don't see their sex life otherwise. They always felt inner urge to submit or dominate. And don't you have adrenaline flows in your blood, when you don't even have a clue, what is going to happen next after you've trusted yourself to your partner, being tied to the bed. Besides the only visual stimulation is a huge drive. Bondage gives you the possibility to uncover hidden side of your personality with the mutual agreement.

For masochists pleasure comes along with pain and they are closely connected. Their and other BDSM utmost desire is to explore new physical sensations to the deep and know to learn satisfaction from suffering or causing pain.